While we both have baggage, we have been mostly successful at working through it. Because he is a mid-level executive, he had enough money in the bank that it didn’t really affect him in the short term, but it was a threat to his long-term financial stability.It is the best relationship I have had for a very long time. Since he is very close to retirement, this was a huge source of stress.Stop being so scared and try being honest with women. You don’t need to trade the hollow, empty promise of a long term relationship with women to manipulate them into giving it up. Romance should be a manifestation of love, not a mechanism to get in some girl’s pants.You know those women you keep ending up in relationships with after they give it up? We are 36 years old now and we’re getting married this year so I’m not going to talk a lot about dating for the express purpose of getting laid. Again, all I will say on the topic is be honest and treat women with more respect.But when I suggested that, he said it’s early yet and we should wait for a while to see if he likes the job enough to stay there.
We were more or less living together and now we are back to dating on weekends.
They want validation of what they’re already thinking or doing.
Unfortunately, that’s probably why there’s so much conflict on this blog, since there’s absolutely nothing interesting or useful in providing validation.
You are smart enough, funny enough and handsome enough. Try to understand, love isn’t something you feel after sex. It’s something you give to someone else who is worthy of such high affection.
You are an okay guy and, believe it or not, some women are attracted to you.