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I'll discuss that in another post, but here, I'll just mention that among the Northern Iroquoians there was a tradition of almost-marriages before actual-marriages, a distinction frequently lost on Euro-Americans.
Cherokee historian James Adair also understood Cherokee women to be allowed the honor of promiscuity, noting that there were no punishments for adulterous women.
The Cherokee people were divided into 7 clans: "Wild Potato" "Long Hair" "Deer" "Blue" "Wolf" "Bird" and "Paint." Every village was made up of representatives and households from each of these 7 clans.
So in theory, everyone would have 5 clans to choose from when choosing a husband or wife. There was a folk belief that simultaneous orgasm by both partners was required and that the effects of such might linger quite a while before the actual pregnancy would begin.
If the matrilineage liked the idea, they would send word back to the boy's matrilineage.
However, although they arranged the marriages, the girl had final word, and her consent was required."Southeastern Indians' favorite places for sexual episodes were corn cribs, corn fields, and bean patches." (Page 198).