Dating player tip
A simple reply saying “sorry that’s not what I am looking for” results in never hearing from them again or a polite reply saying ” thanks for the reply and I hope you find what you are looking for”.
These people I can respect, I may not wish to live their lifestyle but they are honest, polite and genuine. These are the guys and girls that send you sexually explicit, rather nauseating first messages, including their instant messaging details so you can have cyber sex or an unsolicited message saying “liked your profile, blah blah blah, I have attached a photo of myself.
well they should be good at it, they get enough practice.
As they talk to you over time they will probably mention some woman/man on the site that is ‘stalking’ them, this is a flashing red light.
I would like to thank Simon for the inspiration to write this post and I dedicate it to you, you are truly a player at heart.
Players are people that use online dating sites to arrange a string of casual encounters, they are simply sexual predators looking for their latest power trip and online dating sites offer a wide range and number of potential victims.
Generally when you first join a new dating site you will very quickly be approached by the honest “looking for a casual sexual encounter” gang.
In their mind of course there is always the remote possibility they will have a bad weekend without a new victim and may need to call in one of the old ones.
Remember for them it is a game, they are an actor playing the part of James Bond or Marilyn Monroe and will shower you with romance, compliments and be everything you want and need for them to be.
For them there is no cheap dirty hotel or fish and chips on the pier, only the best will do and the men will provide it for you and the women will insist on it if you are getting anywhere near their g-string.
Think of these people as trophy hunters, they get their prey in their sights and will go to bizarre lengths to attain their goal.