Dating for a month
I want to be able to eat junk food, make a mess and belch my approval when I’m finished.Trust me, most guys don’t find this impressive until at least several months in. Crystal Crowder Crystal Crowder is a freelance writer and blogger.I still have work, hobbies, friends and family to deal with.Mixing him in and making sure he gets the majority of my attention isn’t easy. For some reason, parents seem to understand, but friends don’t. I think I’d rather just write up a book report of my highs, lows and need to know topics and get it all over with at one time. It seems like things start to taper off and I feel confident in the relationship by the fourth month. Those first several months are the major “getting to know you” period.
Also be aware of your partner's past experiences in general.
And damn if some people aren’t complete douchebags. Since these first months are so crucial, I have to spend more time with him.
While I love the extra time, I hate what it does to the rest of my schedule.
A commitment to honesty, belief in the equality of all people and respectful treatment toward others are certainly likable traits that can manifest themselves in a matter of months.
If, however, you notice a pattern of lies, consistent rudeness toward waitresses and other service workers or contempt for people of other races, you may want to proceed carefully.