Chat with wife
He apologizes for too many things that aren't apology-worthy offenses, "to be polite," but goes so far as to make things uncomfortable for me.Today he apologized for having work deadlines he needed to focus on, for tossing me a binky at my request that I failed to catch, and for the baby waking up early. Carolyn, I'm tired of reassuring him these things are OK. Andrea will host psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb, author of “Maybe You Should Talk to Someone.” Lori also writes “Dear Therapist” for The Atlantic. And I can imagine myself growing resentful of this, but then I feel judgmental about it. I can see myself being forced into a bigger share of child care responsibilities because she “needs” her massages and gym time and therapy, etc.
By CAROLYN HAXHi, Carolyn: I hope you can help me form a script or change my perspective on my husband's annoying habit.
This article was co-authored by Trudi Griffin, LPC.
Trudi Griffin is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Wisconsin.
In the chat rooms, she has 'sex' with the young men – talking about what she wants to do to them, and what she would like them to do to her.
Some of these sex acts she describes are ones that she has never done with me, or has told me that she would not like to do. Obviously your wife's activities on the web are distressing to you.